Very often when I am in the crowd of people, be it at party or a disc or anywhere, I think what defines a relationship. For me a relationship is a throne, which stands on the pillar of trust faith unselfishness and unaccounted true love. Though in the present world the chances of getting into a true relationship is really really minimal.

Such is the pace of life and such is the demand of today’s life that every person is getting ambitious and greedy. He/She is never satisfied with what they got. They always crave for more even if it is love but then they are not ready to spend their quota even it is love. I am blessed to have found true love in my life and there are a few people whom I love unconditionally and will continue to do so. But at times even myself ponder for a moment and think that what I am getting in return. The very next moment the answer comes from my heart that I am getting the love of GOD. I am not a person who bows to GOD everyday but I have immense faith in the superpower.

If one introspects one’s life they will come to know that there were so many relationships that were once very important to them have been taken over by new found ones. The persons who mattered most to them at certain point of time now when we come to meet them, we might even well ignore them.

So what is the fate of true relationship: I would say the chances are that 90% of these relationships will change into some selfish relationships and then die down but the rest 10% who survive the times will have a bond for a lifetime and they will be one of the most happiest person on earth.

Relationships should have no boundaries. Once we try to bound relationships in a boundary of friends, lovers, relatives it starts a process of expectation. One should just let the feeling flow and the feeling of bliss and gratitude should be always there for the other person involved. It is better that you avoid naming a relationship if the society hasn’t given you one yet.

Relationships when broken are a tragedy for the person who was involved in it but for others it is a comedy of sorts. The reason being they will start ranting or shall I say blabbering about it. They will also add up there spice to it to make it more spicy and make sure that if there is even some scope left in the relationships, it gets killed.

So what to do when in a relationship: The first thing you should do in a relationship is that you should always believe your partner and also try to understand the other person fully. There should be a compromise formula between both as no one is perfect and sadly for me I am someone still not a “no one”.

Second thing is truth and confidence in your partner is a must. Once you start a relationship even if it is a friendship one should be like a open book to the other. It is a old age saying that its always better to know from the person you know rather than crowd coming and telling you about the person who is your friend. The news is GOOD or BAD doesn’t matter, its just that it should get to him/her first by YOU.

Third just love the person like you love yourself. Treat the other person as a part of you. Trust me it helps a lot.

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